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Originally Posted by playfulnreno The couples we find attractive are not interested because we are not the "beautiful" people, you know great bodies, beautiful faces, etc. and the ones who are interested are just not attractive to us. |
Ok people..let's get real here.....Why would the "beautiful" people be interested in you?? You say you are fat,middle aged and balding...So why would someone who is the opposite of that be attracted to you? Is there an unwritten law in swinging that says you have to be into everyone..regardless of what they look like??? Guess i didnt get that memo!!...LOL!! I can see how thats who you would want ...but guess what... that isn't the way things go......personality is important but physical attraction is more important.(in swingland anyway) Sorry..thats just the way it is...Try people who are physically more like you. Although unfortunately they probably have the same mindset as you. Or maybe try working on yourself...diet,excersize....your never too old to start.....
Not trying to be a weiner here...just stating the obvious.....
Mr B