[DBL D]

Hey twoplayful,

I get what you're saying but I'm just relating how it was used in our situation.

I do think that if the lady wasn't reacting so strongly (maybe over-reacting?) that they would both (Hubby & Wifey) feel better about each other in the future. People can't just expect that they can lay out all the plans as to how they want things to go and then quit when things happen differently. We've definitely changed our thoughts about the lifestyle and sometimes those changes were made "on the fly".

Hope she can forgive and forget.

Male D