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Originally Posted by DBL D the fact that you are feeling lower on the food chain or anything like it. I think you said that because you felt that someone had to make a tough decision and it was you. |
BTW, I don't agree that is the purpose of "I'm the asshole" here. It's probably not so much about her feeling bad as it is about her feeling she's losing the fight. When someone feels like they lose too many arguments they often resort to "okay, whatever, I'm wrong as usual, I'm the asshole once again", etc, etc. The problem has become a point that needs to be won more than something that needs to be worked out. Adventureus
understandably feels very hurt and confused in this but needs to somehow get herself calmed down and thinking rationally about all of the points people brought up here (whether they're for or against her decisions) and her current situation. "I'm the asshole" is just throwing in the towel, and while that's fine to do with us, I don't think it's something she can do in this particular situation with her husband.