There's just something about being an
asshole, and I don't think it is the fact that you are feeling lower on the food chain or anything like it. I think you said that because you felt that someone had to make a tough decision and it was you. Mistakenly, we call people like them
assholes sometimes when we all know that someone has to do it every so often.
My point is that it isn't getting you anywhere in your relationship that is positive. Work on
trust, communication and
maybe even bartering to get where you need to be, but don't give up!
Please?
Male D