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Originally Posted by adventureUS I was overly tired as I had been sick with the flu the week prior and was still recovering and exausted. I made a comment that the two "horn dogs" would probably fuck after I fell asleep..there was no mention that we werent infact going to sleep. I was kidding....and I passed out. |
Well adventure, I can't say you "deserve" to be treated "easy" on this one. Everyone so far on the board has been very "nice" to you, but frankly, I think you deserve to hear a real authentic viewpoint that would really be helpful for you in this path you are taking as a swinger.
You got results exactly in line with what you created.
Did you or did you not in fact:
"participate" in selling the other couple in allowing this women to party with you and yours w/o her hubby being there?
party with your hubby and her, which by the way carried with it the direct implication that it was okay for your hubby to sexually engage with her as well?
party when you were suceptible to being "tired" at 4:30 in the morning b/c you were sick?
tell them (perhaps kiddingly in your mind, but you didn't say you were kidding) to go ahead a party on without you while you were sleeping?
choose to become a swinger?
have sex with her husband before?
Are you not in fact also choosing to not believe your hubby when he says she gabs a lot and that he loves and is committed to only you?
Listen lady, there is nothing, and I mean NOTHING, about this situation that you didn't create, and now you are whining about your results.
There is this story about a construction guy who always complains, every day at lunchtime when he opens his lunch pail, that he is sick and tired of peanut butter and jelly sandwichs, which is what he has for lunch everyday. One day, one of his co-workers who is tired of hearing him complain everyday says, "listen buddy, why don't you just tell your wife to make you a different kind of sandwich for lunch; a turkey or ham perhaps?" The complaining guy says back to him, "what are you talking about, I am single, I make my own lunch every morning."
GET IT?