 Re: Something's Not Right
My biggest problem with this is you are "fighting" over this. If this was my hubby he would be bending over backwards begging for forgiveness. And Im unclear on something ....did he say he "made love" to her? give you details? Making love is for us and us alone. We never share those intament feelings with no one else. that is just way beyond wrong!! Does he even seem like he wants to make this work for you two? Him wanting to stay at work tonight instead of coming home makes me wonder. But then again maybe some space between you guys is just what you need. Gives you time to cool off some (not that you dont have every right to be beyond pissed off!!)..and give him time to think about what he did and has been doing. This sounds more like an affair than a swinging situation. If it was just the sex part then well it would be a lesson learned but the long phone calls,,,the getting defensive for him doing wrong just doesnt sit right with me. I really hope you two can work it out and honestly I dont know any way to fix this without time and lots of talking...not fighting but talking! and listening from you both.
My heart goes out to you and i wish you the very best!! |