 Re: Something's Not Right
I agree that this was a crappy situation and he had no right to do what he did, you certainly have every right to be pissed and hurt.
However if you want to continue to have a realitionship with your husband, you have to get over the anger and start to work towards careing about each other again. You're feelings are justified, but if you continue to let them eat at you until you are sick inside and angry at him, you are going to drive him away completely. He said he would rather stay at work tonight....this implies he 'feels' he is being driven away.
I am not saying that you have to accept blame, but you may have to put some of the anger and hurt aside long enough to be able to talk to him again in a less confrontational manner.
I hope you are able to work things out, it always makes me sad to read stories like yours, I wish I could help out!
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