[good times]

I doubt if you are doing anything wrong. We have been going to a couple of clubs in Reno pretty regularly for about a year and a half, and in that time we have met a lot of nice people that we enjoy visiting with whenever we go. Of the people we have met, we have hooked up with a few of them to play and of those we have played with we have only really clicked with about 2 or 3 couples that we now consider regular playmates. Like the others have said it is difficult to find 4 people who all find each other attractive enough for sex and like CA said it seems to go in spurts, for weeks we won't find anyone that we would want to have sex with and then we will have a period of time were we have more prospects than we know what to do with. Being regulars at the club, I can't tell you how many times we have met another couple that we were interested in and then introduced them around and they ended up hooking up with someone we had itroduced them to. At first this kind of bothered us to but after a time we have come to realize that we have had more than our share of success, and we can't expect to hook up with every attracive couple we meet so it isn't as much of an issue to us any more.

As far as phisical attraction and when to say no goes, if we are aproached by a couple and there is no physical attraction we will usually say no right away as we have learned that to do that is much better than leading someone on and disappointing them more later, and we apreciate it when people are clear up front with us too.