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SexhoundDog · 03-15-2005, 03:24 PM

Mrs. Adventure,

I'd try to put this behind me as quickly as possible. Without a doubt, you're all to blame, them for not having any more foresight than to think that anything goes, including the intimate things you and hubby reserve for each other, and you, for not saying something.

However, see what happens with you and hubby. He says "you're the one", so let him prove it. But at the same time, verify things. See how the lovemaking between the two of you goes, but be sure to check the ol' computer every so often and keep tabs on the phone. You mentioned he wanted to work tonite rather than come home. I can tell you're suspicious, so why not stop by and see that all looks well. If it does, how about a little hot sex right there on his desk?

I hope you can revitalize all between you. If you've been swinging for 5 years, I would hope so. A lot of trust had to have been there to be OK with swinging for that long. And, don't be so hard on yourself, it may be inflaming the situation as well.

03-15-2005, 03:24 PM	#7 (permalink)
SexhoundDog Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 357 Location: Colorado Status: M.Male	Re: Something's Not Right Mrs. Adventure, I'd try to put this behind me as quickly as possible. Without a doubt, you're all to blame, them for not having any more foresight than to think that anything goes, including the intimate things you and hubby reserve for each other, and you, for not saying something. However, see what happens with you and hubby. He says "you're the one", so let him prove it. But at the same time, verify things. See how the lovemaking between the two of you goes, but be sure to check the ol' computer every so often and keep tabs on the phone. You mentioned he wanted to work tonite rather than come home. I can tell you're suspicious, so why not stop by and see that all looks well. If it does, how about a little hot sex right there on his desk? I hope you can revitalize all between you. If you've been swinging for 5 years, I would hope so. A lot of trust had to have been there to be OK with swinging for that long. And, don't be so hard on yourself, it may be inflaming the situation as well.