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Originally Posted by adventureUS I've mentioned to him a few times over the past few months that I find it strange he can sit and talk with her on the phone for so long....(we are talking upto 4 hours at a time) Some "red flags" have been going up..but he's assured me that she's just so chatty he cant get off the phone. |
After reading your post, I can see where you would be upset with your husband. But I can also see where you could be upset with yourself.
You saw the "red flags" and I think you may be most upset because you didn't do more early on to stop the long conversations your husband was having with this woman. Yes, he should have known better than to get involved in long conversations. Yes, he could have brought the conversations to a close earlier, he's not incapable of this, he chose to continue with her.
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I made a comment that the two "horn dogs" would probably fuck after I fell asleep..there was no mention that we werent infact going to sleep. I was kidding....and I passed out.
...The argument is that my flirty remarks gave them the go-ahead.
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You gave them the OK to play while you were asleep. Even if they knew you were kidding, your statement was their excuse to play.
Don't be too hard on yourself, or your husband, you've both learned something through this.
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I know your all going to say that Im not cut out for this and that we are lacking communication....Im not looking for that from you..I just want your take on the situation..thank you
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LM