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adventureUS · 03-15-2005, 01:29 PM

Not sure how to start this post as I have so many things going thru my mind, so I'll try to keep this as simple as possible...

I'll start by saying that a few months ago we met another couple and have gotten together a few times over the past few months...sometimes to play and sometimes just to hang out.

"She" is very chatty on the phone and I'am not! My hubby has never been much of a phone person..until "her". I've mentioned to him a few times over the past few months that I find it strange he can sit and talk with her on the phone for so long....(we are talking upto 4 hours at a time) Some "red flags" have been going up..but he's assured me that she's just so chatty he cant get off the phone.

Anyway...her hubby was away last weekend on a camping trip (which he does quite often) so the previous weekend it was brought up between the four of us if she could play without her hubby. Her hubby had no problem whatsoever with this.

So, this past saturday night, she came over. The evening went extremely well..the three of us had a blast!

Until....here it is..4:30 in the morning..we are all beat (so I think) and we are all three laying in the bed (her in the middle) she was tickling my back with her finger nails and my husband is softly caressing her back, side and ass! I made a comment about the fact that he was stroking her....well it went un-noticed! I was overly tired as I had been sick with the flu the week prior and was still recovering and exausted. I made a comment that the two "horn dogs" would probably fuck after I fell asleep..there was no mention that we werent infact going to sleep. I was kidding....and I passed out. Seriously..it was 4:30 int the morning and we were all being silly....I never dreamed...

Well, when I awoke the following morning.....I find out that the rubbing/caressing he was doing to "her" led to other things. They were spooning as we typically do and caressing her as he normally does me. They had sex in the bed next to me as I slept! I asked him how this happened and he pretty much recited a reinactment of our typical Love making session...start to finish. I was kidding for cryin out loud...it was 4:30 in the morning!!!!

He swears he has no feelings for her...and im just sick to my stomach. The argument is that my flirty remarks gave them the go-ahead. Im sorry...why was he caressing/snuggling her...talking to her on the phone for so many hours...and reinacting a love making session...is there no intimacy that is sacred for just me???

I know your all going to say that Im not cut out for this and that we are lacking communication....Im not looking for that from you..I just want your take on the situation..thank you

be easy on me please

03-15-2005, 01:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
adventureUS Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 28 Location: maryland	My husband played after I fell asleep Not sure how to start this post as I have so many things going thru my mind, so I'll try to keep this as simple as possible... I'll start by saying that a few months ago we met another couple and have gotten together a few times over the past few months...sometimes to play and sometimes just to hang out. "She" is very chatty on the phone and I'am not! My hubby has never been much of a phone person..until "her". I've mentioned to him a few times over the past few months that I find it strange he can sit and talk with her on the phone for so long....(we are talking upto 4 hours at a time) Some "red flags" have been going up..but he's assured me that she's just so chatty he cant get off the phone. Anyway...her hubby was away last weekend on a camping trip (which he does quite often) so the previous weekend it was brought up between the four of us if she could play without her hubby. Her hubby had no problem whatsoever with this. So, this past saturday night, she came over. The evening went extremely well..the three of us had a blast! Until....here it is..4:30 in the morning..we are all beat (so I think) and we are all three laying in the bed (her in the middle) she was tickling my back with her finger nails and my husband is softly caressing her back, side and ass! I made a comment about the fact that he was stroking her....well it went un-noticed! I was overly tired as I had been sick with the flu the week prior and was still recovering and exausted. I made a comment that the two "horn dogs" would probably fuck after I fell asleep..there was no mention that we werent infact going to sleep. I was kidding....and I passed out. Seriously..it was 4:30 int the morning and we were all being silly....I never dreamed... Well, when I awoke the following morning.....I find out that the rubbing/caressing he was doing to "her" led to other things. They were spooning as we typically do and caressing her as he normally does me. They had sex in the bed next to me as I slept! I asked him how this happened and he pretty much recited a reinactment of our typical Love making session...start to finish. I was kidding for cryin out loud...it was 4:30 in the morning!!!! He swears he has no feelings for her...and im just sick to my stomach. The argument is that my flirty remarks gave them the go-ahead. Im sorry...why was he caressing/snuggling her...talking to her on the phone for so many hours...and reinacting a love making session...is there no intimacy that is sacred for just me??? I know your all going to say that Im not cut out for this and that we are lacking communication....Im not looking for that from you..I just want your take on the situation..thank you be easy on me please