 Re: How do we mention it ???
I actually do swing with my best friend and her hubby (he is a best friend too).. We didn't talk about it, it sort of happened during a camping trip/poker game.
It was not full swap, or even soft swap, just dipping our toes in the water.
Later on we talked about it and things went from there. So far things have worked out well. I can see where swinging with friends can be tricky. It works for me because I have been friends with the other wife since high school and (even though we didn't think of it as swinging back then) we have been involved in 'swingerish' type activities for a long time. It was a 'natural progression'
I think the Naughties and ALura have offered some sound advice. Good luck
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