Thanks again to everyone who responded and Miss Piggy I'm sorry - guess I should have reread things, that's what I get for doing things when I'm tired. Duh
Normally, I'm a person who really doesn't give a damn what people think of me. I know how to stand up for myself and tell people to go screw themselves, I know how to be a bitch when necessary
. I also have this little motto that has gotten me into trouble more than once because I don't always know enough to keep my mouth shut...
"I have a big mouth AND I know how to use it". I've pissed off many people because they ask my opinion about something and didn't like the answer they get from me.
Any way, thanks again everyone - great advice and to hell with those who don't like the way I look.