As a single male, last night I had my first swing clup experience. It was a GANGBANGER SPECIAL. If I had known that this was the norm for male singles, I personaly would not have attended. I was there for a couple of hours and walked out. The club owner was upset as he said he needed every single male there. I told him to keep the 50.00 I gave him to attend as this was not or ever will be MY Thing. After spending three hours at the club before it opened for orientation on the does and don'ts, I was not prepared for the behaviour or the way these women were treated. In fact, every don't was practised! The way the couples treated the single males told me that a single male is only there for them to be a cuckoled idiot. Again, not me. There was absolutely no respect shown to anyone except the club owner and his wife. I hope the rest of you have had a better experience then I have in this. No wonder the single males are becoming an endangered species in the lifestyle. WE are not wanted. Marv