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Originally Posted by graygo98
As to rules, yeah, I agree with the post above. Too many rules and its WTF? Rules that relate to how much risk you are willing to take on (rubbers, for example) or activities that you don't enjoy (anal, maybe) are understandable. But, kissing because its too intimate? Or stroking your partner's face while she performs oral on you? No disrespect to those who feel differently, but having sex with someone [B is[/b] a pretty intimate thing, unless its with a pro in some by-the-hour hotel. |
That's pretty much what we think. Personally, we don't play with couples who have the "no kissing" rule just because it seems like there are other issues that go along with it-we'd rather just avoid that. If you can't kiss someone, I don't see how you can possibly do anything else with them.
As for the OP, I don't think we worry too much about showing excitement. We can have a great, erotic evening with a couple, but we know no one else is going to make either of us feel the way our spouse does, so it's okay to just have some fun. We don't do anything with our swap partners that isn't allowed between us. There may be new techniques, or just things we haven't thought of, but those become great learning experiences we can always try later. There are things we do that we may not do with swap partners however. We would hope that as far as the other couple is concerned, they aren't doing anything with us that is forbidden or discouraged between them- that just seems like asking for trouble.