The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Doing things with a swap partner that you don't do with your spouse

graygo98 · 03-04-2005, 04:25 PM

"C" also. And, it might not just be technique that leads to the pleasurable experience, but a response triggered by being just really excited by the novely/eroticism of the situation. And that, after all, is why we do it. Because the situation is just such a thrill.

The other example, where the woman let the other man pleasure her orally but wouldn't let her husband? Does that really happen? There are women who won't let their man go down? Something that might be more common (cause its the theme of about 100,000 Literotica stories) is the wife who won't give her husband a blowjob going down on another man. I can imagine that because the lifestyle seems to really break down boundaries for folks once they start letting loose. Anyone seen that happen?

As to rules, yeah, I agree with the post above. Too many rules and its WTF? Rules that relate to how much risk you are willing to take on (rubbers, for example) or activities that you don't enjoy (anal, maybe) are understandable. But, kissing because its too intimate? Or stroking your partner's face while she performs oral on you? No disrespect to those who feel differently, but having sex with someone is a pretty intimate thing, unless its with a pro in some by-the-hour hotel.

03-04-2005, 04:25 PM	#16 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: How do you act with the swap partner "C" also. And, it might not just be technique that leads to the pleasurable experience, but a response triggered by being just really excited by the novely/eroticism of the situation. And that, after all, is why we do it. Because the situation is just such a thrill. The other example, where the woman let the other man pleasure her orally but wouldn't let her husband? Does that really happen? There are women who won't let their man go down? Something that might be more common (cause its the theme of about 100,000 Literotica stories) is the wife who won't give her husband a blowjob going down on another man. I can imagine that because the lifestyle seems to really break down boundaries for folks once they start letting loose. Anyone seen that happen? As to rules, yeah, I agree with the post above. Too many rules and its WTF? Rules that relate to how much risk you are willing to take on (rubbers, for example) or activities that you don't enjoy (anal, maybe) are understandable. But, kissing because its too intimate? Or stroking your partner's face while she performs oral on you? No disrespect to those who feel differently, but having sex with someone is a pretty intimate thing, unless its with a pro in some by-the-hour hotel.