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Originally Posted by camelsmilk What about if the situation in the example is reversed(woman really enjoyign oral sex from swap partner but won't let husband perform oral sex on her - even though he wants to?) |
Okay, this is a little different from the "so and so has a better technique situation". If the woman is unwilling to recieve oral sex from her partner but perfectly pleased to do it with a play partner there is something quite misunderstood within this couple.
I can think of a couple of reasons that she might act this way but really the husband needs to ask her outright about what is going on - open the lines of communication. It's important for the husband to approach this in a very nonthreatening way - taking an "I'm trying to understand this" approach as opposed to an "I'm pissed off and jealous about this" approach. Inj my mind this would be one of those big issues that would require a lot of careful communication (ie attentive listening) to sort out.