The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Doing things with a swap partner that you don't do with your spouse

lovefest04 · 03-04-2005, 01:53 AM

I've said this before. I'd love to do anal with my SO but she says I'm too big, so its off limits. If a smaller partner showed interest, I believe she'd want to experiment.

It would be difficult, but swinging is about living out fantasies including, IMHO pushing the envelope.

I have heard a lot of men say they don't like doing oral on a woman, does this mean she shouldn't be allowed to have a swing partner do it?

However, if a couple has an agreement then it should be honored. For example, I have read many posts where the couple has agreed not to kiss swing partners, so yes that should be off limits no matter what.

03-04-2005, 01:53 AM	#7 (permalink)
lovefest04 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Northern California	Re: How do you act with the swap partner I've said this before. I'd love to do anal with my SO but she says I'm too big, so its off limits. If a smaller partner showed interest, I believe she'd want to experiment. It would be difficult, but swinging is about living out fantasies including, IMHO pushing the envelope. I have heard a lot of men say they don't like doing oral on a woman, does this mean she shouldn't be allowed to have a swing partner do it? However, if a couple has an agreement then it should be honored. For example, I have read many posts where the couple has agreed not to kiss swing partners, so yes that should be off limits no matter what.