 Re: Club Behavior
I've only been to two off-premise clubs.
I had a guy ask me to dance who was so uncomfortable that it took me back to thoughts of shy high school boys.
Another guy held me so tight when we danced I thought I'd pop. It would have been nicer if I had been given time to want him to do that, but because that didn't occur his squeeze was not a turn on.
Men can be way too aggressive or play it extra careful because they don't want to offend you.
Walk into the club knowing that if a man or woman (who can be more aggressive than men) does something you aren't comfortable with you don't have to put up with it. Communication is crucial. You can find ways to get a message across without being rude or offensive and everyone is better off.
Keepiing a smile on my face and using a little humor works well for me when keeping people in place.
Don't ever feel you are suppose to accept some form of behavior that you're not comfortable with just because you're at a swinger's club.
Only do what feels right and you'll enjoy yourselves.
LM
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