[charlottefreaks]

Well we are an open cpl but playing without each other is out of the question because we both loving watching each other play. As far as separate rooms, our first swinging experience was in separate rooms and I did not enjoy myself. For one we had already address to the cpl that we do not perform in separate rooms. The female half of the other relationship got up in the middle of us playing and took my fiance out to another room. Instantly I got out of the mood of doing anything. This made the male half feel as though he wasn't perforing well, even though that wasn't the case. To make a long story short, after that experience I told the woman that we do not play separate and her responds was YOUR NEW TO THE LIFESTYLE YOU WILL GET USE TO IT. She eventually started talking about leaving her hubby. To make matters worst she would make me feel like if i wasnt there they would have so much more fun. That drew the line for me and we decided same room is the best for us. More exotic!!!!