 Re: Sneaky Females
DeNastyOne, I don't have much experience or in-depth knowledge of D/s relationships, but my impression is that it parallels swinging in many respects, and although the focus may be a in a little different direction, the need for top-notch communication, profound trust, and strong emotional bonding seems to be the same. I don't know what the rules are in your household, but it would seem to me that regardless of one's choice of lifestyle/hobby, it should never cause one to lose respect for one's self. If you find that you are being asked to respect yourself less and just "deal with it" (as it would seem your partner is asking you to do), you need to ask yourself who exactly has the problem here? Sure hope you guys get this sorted out.
And I'm with you: I'd be tempted to kick Chicky's ass, too. Little tart. But you know what? I think I'd probably just laugh at her, because I know exactly what would happen when she gets in Mr.'s face after pulling a stunt like that. She would definitely walk away knowing her place! And it sure as hell isn't above me!
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