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Originally Posted by inbeachcouple I think its safe to say that all of us have made 'mistakes' along the way, some more severe than others. It seems like most people have added 'don't do this....' responses, but I'll add a 'good job at....'
Even though both of you have screwed up (doesn't matter who screwed up more than the other), you have gotten past your issues, and communicated what the problems were/are. Yes, you need to do a better job in setting up your guidelines for what is good and what isn't. I don't think it would be a reach for either of you to stop all action if you see or do something you don't like. As uncomfortable as it may be at the moment, it could really save you alot of headaches down the road. Keep reading up on how other people deal with situations and find what's best for you two. You two seem to have a good basis for communication going (based on what you've said so far). That's one of the most important things you can do in this lifestyle (even if you're only experimenting). |
Thanks Inbeachcouple it's true that we have always been able to communicate and try to figure out where things went wrong not only for lifestyle stuffs but for everything.
We learned a lot from our first party experience even though not everything went smoothly. We are not ready to jump in right away again. We are taking some time to digest everything and letting time do its magic. The quality of time we spent together has gone up. This past weekend we celebrated the 8th anniversary of our meeting. We played "climaxxx" game and I can tell you we had one of our best sex.
I am sure that we will do it again, its just a matter of time :-) but we want to make sure we are ready.