 Re: Rules
I think its safe to say that all of us have made 'mistakes' along the way, some more severe than others. It seems like most people have added 'don't do this....' responses, but I'll add a 'good job at....'
Even though both of you have screwed up (doesn't matter who screwed up more than the other), you have gotten past your issues, and communicated what the problems were/are. Yes, you need to do a better job in setting up your guidelines for what is good and what isn't. I don't think it would be a reach for either of you to stop all action if you see or do something you don't like. As uncomfortable as it may be at the moment, it could really save you alot of headaches down the road. Keep reading up on how other people deal with situations and find what's best for you two. You two seem to have a good basis for communication going (based on what you've said so far). That's one of the most important things you can do in this lifestyle (even if you're only experimenting). |