The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Sneaky females, my boyfriend and boundaries

DeNastyOne · 02-24-2005, 07:49 PM

He is very naive sometimes, in fact we went through him being blind about my feelings towards a female of a couple, something about her always bothered me. Well she eventually came to me behind his back and wanted her and I to get together secretly. I of course told him of this and he ended the friendship right away. Maybe he thinks that people who swing regardless of the level, are all upfront and trustworthy............ I do know at some point this Jane Doe female is going to suggest something behind my back. I try not to be disobdiant and say too much but at the same time, frustrations caused by others are coming into our life, something that should NEVER happen..................... thanks for listening and for the replies.

02-24-2005, 07:49 PM	#4 (permalink)
DeNastyOne Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: North Florida	Re: Sneaky Females He is very naive sometimes, in fact we went through him being blind about my feelings towards a female of a couple, something about her always bothered me. Well she eventually came to me behind his back and wanted her and I to get together secretly. I of course told him of this and he ended the friendship right away. Maybe he thinks that people who swing regardless of the level, are all upfront and trustworthy............ I do know at some point this Jane Doe female is going to suggest something behind my back. I try not to be disobdiant and say too much but at the same time, frustrations caused by others are coming into our life, something that should NEVER happen..................... thanks for listening and for the replies.