The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Sneaky females, my boyfriend and boundaries

wkyadventurers · 02-24-2005, 07:12 PM

Your boyfriend is the key to this whole scenario. He and I have many of the same ideals and I think we could relate well as for our fantasies. We both seem to enjoy watching our ladies being the life of the party/club. However, as the Dom in a D/s lifestyle, he is the one making the mistake here. As the sub you should be able to set the limits. It sounds to me that you have set this limit and he is not being respectful of it. As many of the people in this group will advise you, if both parties are not involved, play time does not happen.

So, since you are not into this other couple and have obviously seen the light in respect to the female half of that couple, you have answered your own question.

My advice...he needs to terminate all communications with this couple and you shoudl both make this all stop now before you come home to find your white rabbit in a rolling boil.

02-24-2005, 07:12 PM	#2 (permalink)
wkyadventurers Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 19 Location: Kentucky	Re: Sneaky Females Your boyfriend is the key to this whole scenario. He and I have many of the same ideals and I think we could relate well as for our fantasies. We both seem to enjoy watching our ladies being the life of the party/club. However, as the Dom in a D/s lifestyle, he is the one making the mistake here. As the sub you should be able to set the limits. It sounds to me that you have set this limit and he is not being respectful of it. As many of the people in this group will advise you, if both parties are not involved, play time does not happen. So, since you are not into this other couple and have obviously seen the light in respect to the female half of that couple, you have answered your own question. My advice...he needs to terminate all communications with this couple and you shoudl both make this all stop now before you come home to find your white rabbit in a rolling boil.