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Old 02-23-2005, 11:46 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Needing advice about MFM

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Originally Posted by taomaster
Here's what we found out after some trial and error: 90% of single men are just interested in having fun with a woman (in this case your partner). They're not really interested in a true MFM which, in my book, is two men working together to please a woman.

So if an MFM is really what you want then pick and choose carefully. If you can find the right guy she'll be a very happy camper (if the grin on Mrs. T's face has been anything to go by).
I think taomaster brings up an important point.

During a MFM, the woman should be the center of attention. Both men need to know how to 'perform together' for the woman's pleasure, for it to be a truly wonderful experience. Both men's focus should be on the woman at all times.

If the guys are just taking turns and watching, it's not quite as fun as when they're both participating. This could leave your wife worried that she's spending too much time with one guy and distract her from really enjoying herself. It's difficult to concentrate on pleasing two men at once.

My first MFM was a horrible experience because the men were so nervous about touching eachother. Their only focus was their individual pleasure, rather then making it a team event. It made the experience awkward and too much work for me.

There's lots of pleasurable things one man can do to the woman while the other man is having sex with her. For instance, sit behind your wife and have her lay back on you while she's having sex (misionary position) with the other man. You can rub her breasts, run your fingers through her hair, talk to her: tell her how sexy she looks. She can orally please you if she turns around and changes position.

I'm sure you get the idea.
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