well, I guess I get to answer on both threads. We started out with an open marriage which now has turned into a polyamorous one.
For us it's working out wonderfully; no jealousy, no insecurities and no secrecy!
I guess it takes two people who are can communicate (in ways you'd never dream) and that are on the same page as to the level of committment to the marriage in order for it to w0rk well.
We've been married 30 yrs so we knew each other very well, maybe that makes it much easier, although I never want anyone to believe it's a walk in the park. Subjects you never thought you'd discuss with your mate are now freely discussed and it's a continual work in progress to make sure the committment to each other is intact & healthy.
Can't wait to answer the poly thread!!
