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EvilMJ · 02-19-2005, 04:57 PM

Maybe the best conversation you can have it what she does not want to happen. If she cannot verbalize what she wants (and I can fully understand that), I think what you need to know is what she feels is too far, or what she is not comfortable with. Make some signs up between the two of you so that if something is happening that she does not like, you will know and be able to quickly end it.

Start there, and don't worry about getting too many details about her desires, she may not be 100% sure until she gets into the situation.

02-19-2005, 04:57 PM	#6 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: We Need Help With Communication Maybe the best conversation you can have it what she does not want to happen. If she cannot verbalize what she wants (and I can fully understand that), I think what you need to know is what she feels is too far, or what she is not comfortable with. Make some signs up between the two of you so that if something is happening that she does not like, you will know and be able to quickly end it. Start there, and don't worry about getting too many details about her desires, she may not be 100% sure until she gets into the situation.
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