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graygo98 · 02-18-2005, 04:48 PM

Intuition

You are right....its not a metaphor... its an analogy!

But, I still don't quite buy it. Are you saying, as the diamond whatsit seemed to, that the joy in swinging is that other people finding your spouse attractive makes he/she more attractive to you? That is what I read in the original post, and it just does't describe how I feel.

You have spun it off the original point a bit, and I can relate more closely to your take on it. But, its still a bit too "other directed" for me. (BTW, you are a great writer and a very thoughful commentator. Not dissing your viewpoint at all, just have a different perspective. Or, maybe I am just a bit thick today.)

Have a great weekend, all!

02-18-2005, 04:48 PM	#15 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: husband wants me to swing Intuition You are right....its not a metaphor... its an analogy! But, I still don't quite buy it. Are you saying, as the diamond whatsit seemed to, that the joy in swinging is that other people finding your spouse attractive makes he/she more attractive to you? That is what I read in the original post, and it just does't describe how I feel. You have spun it off the original point a bit, and I can relate more closely to your take on it. But, its still a bit too "other directed" for me. (BTW, you are a great writer and a very thoughful commentator. Not dissing your viewpoint at all, just have a different perspective. Or, maybe I am just a bit thick today.) Have a great weekend, all!