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Old 02-18-2005, 09:28 AM   #11 (permalink)
graygo98
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Join Date: Mar 2004
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Default Re: husband wants me to swing

On the main point, I am with VegasLee... if your heart isn't in it, don't do it!

DJJWP (hope I got that right) also made some good points. I'm not sure I am with him on the diamond necklace metaphor, though. Sure, I suppose it does make me feel good that other people (M & F) find my wife attractive... but hey, I already knew that. More important, to me she's the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.. she's says that I'm biased, but how could that be?

For me, the lifestyle's big rush is the look on her face when she is really hot.... the crazy grin on my face when we are "dirty dancing" with another couple... the excitement we feel getting ready... the high we have together for sometimes days after. Its just another really fun thing that we have together.
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