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Originally Posted by chloe The reason why I am here is because he said that I should check it out. He has shown me messages on here to try to help me with my issues. I feel like I would be committing adultery - though he says it is not, because I would have his consent. |
Take a look through the board, checking out the various posts and topics. If you then feel it's something you would be interested in and can handle, then great! If not, well that's cool too. If you could do a search on here for
"Swinging is not for everyone", you would probably get back more results than you would have time to read. No one here is going to try to "recruit" you into the lifestyle. The last thing any of us want is to hook up with a couple where the wife or husband of the other couple "freaks out" during play. If both couples aren't interested and eager, then you shouldn't do it.
Your husband suggested it, and if you aren't comfortable with it at this point in your life, then that's it.