We ALWAYS let the other couple & singles know what's up ahead of time! We'd like to avoid playing the "guessing" game, and just get straight to the point. This way no valuable time is taken away from our play sessions.
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And even during our playtime, we are all communicating with each other no matter what's going on, likes and dislikes are heard and respected as we move along in pleasuring each other. We're all sharing fantasies together with our playmates, we all have the right to voice our opinions & suggestions to help make our sexual encounters enjoyable and pleasing for everyone involved.
I think that's how it should be, right?
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How do other couples handle "communicating" their pleasures before, during, and after their sexual play?
It seems to me, that not everyone expresses their true feelings much with their playmates, not until something UNcomfortable happens, then what?
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We like to get rid of the UNcomfortable situations by killing it right there and then, if it should happen while we're already playing! Rare, but it happens sometimes...
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Wife