Just to reiterate a few other points and speaking as a swinging male that does find it difficult to cum with a different partner (forgive the run on sentence here). I am usually so interested in finding out the techniques of a new partner that in many cases I even remian flaccid until direct stimulation gets me going. Even then I find it near impossible to finish unless the woman is performing orally on me. The condom has a bit to do with it, as well as the before mentioned interest in the other person.
But the biggest reason I have is that my wife and I usually end up together in the end and I want to be able to finish with her. Like others mentioned, when I was 20, 3 or 4 times a night was attainable. At 33... well, 1 for sure maybe twice if it is a few hours apart.
Anyone else feel this way? Or am I being selfish or soemthing. I have explained it to my other partner before. Sometimes they understand and it is no big deal, once though she took it as an insult and froze up for the rest of the night.
BTW CanadianCouple..... we are in NB as well. Drop us a line some time.
Medi, the male half of the couple.
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