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Originally posted by Cold climate:
Thanks for your replies.
After reading the comments I now realise that expecting 'lights, bells and heavenly choirs' with each new partner was unrealistic. |
Heavenly choirs...lmbo...why do I have a visual of a bunch of angels standing around you with there hands up there angel robes really hitting the high notes?....
I think another factor is the fact that no matter how sexy the person or the moment is there are always techniques that one needs to get used to with a partner.
For us as a couple our sexuality is an evolving process and our techniques are being refined continously. Or as often as humanly possible lol.
When you are with someone new you don't really know what turns her on and it can take several trial and errors to get it down
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When I am with someone new, my mind is often on trying to figure out what she likes. This can be a distraction for me and has resulted in the inability to orgasm on occasion.
Unless I am in a state of extreme excitement I cannot cum with a condom on also. I would have to ask the lady to get me off manually or do it myself afterwards but would always explain this up front so she can decide when the playtime is over.
Alcohol may play a role in this also. Lots of people need it to reduce there inhibitions but there is a point where alcohol will allow the erection but not the release.
Have fun, John.