The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Missed Wife's Signal and now she feels I broke a rule

couple_ps · 02-10-2005, 10:14 AM

Hello Vespertine,
Thanks a lot for the reply to my post. It was exactly what I needed to hear or read :-). Things have always been fine except for these two unfortunate experiences. We have always define our boundaries before doing anything. Unfortunately, the first time she did not hear me saying "let's go to the bedroom" and the second time I missed the "blinking". Like you said we now know that we need to find a way to communicate clearly. We both made a mistake as we were adventuring on new waters. It would be foolish to hold grudge against each other.

02-10-2005, 10:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
couple_ps Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 24 Location: Canada	Re: Rules Hello Vespertine, Thanks a lot for the reply to my post. It was exactly what I needed to hear or read :-). Things have always been fine except for these two unfortunate experiences. We have always define our boundaries before doing anything. Unfortunately, the first time she did not hear me saying "let's go to the bedroom" and the second time I missed the "blinking". Like you said we now know that we need to find a way to communicate clearly. We both made a mistake as we were adventuring on new waters. It would be foolish to hold grudge against each other.