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Originally Posted by BloomoCoupleFun And since I have clearly made by issue know via this thread and other public ventures, I must assume we are now on this "blacklist". And now we feel distinctly unwelcome at some places -- and we have never even been there!!!! |
The only club we have ever visited is Klub Layden, so we can only speak about what happens and how we are treated by others that attend this particular club. We are very open on our on line ads, and with everyone we meet at the club about both of us being bisexual. It's not always the first thing in the conversation, but we never hide it. We have never been treated poorly, run into anyone at the club that refused to talk with us, join our table, laugh with us, etc. Are there those that choose not to play with us because of our sexual orientation? Sure there are. Big deal. One of the things that makes sex enjoyable and fun is everyone relaxing and having a good time. Why would we want to have sex with anyone that we would make uncomfortable? We have played with straight couples, couples where one was straight, couples where both were bi, and both straight and bi singles at the club. We have never felt discriminated against, and certainly not blacklisted. Frankly, If people are talking details outside of the club about what you are doing with others (or who the others are)....You're going to the wrong clubs. Anyway.....just be yourselves. Don't worry too much about what others are saying or thinking. If someone is so close minded that they don't want to take the time to get to know you because of what someone else says, they probably aren't people you want to play with! Come visit Klub Layden sometime. We'll introduce to everyone!
(Most of them are straight, but don't hold it against them...They're really good people!)
Edited to add: Great post Spoo! We have to agree. If the door is closed.....who cares?