Re: Why the hatred of bi-males?
I am completely straight... Not because I am insecure, but simply because I know that I could not enjoy sex with another man... No how, no way. That's just me...
But - I certainly hope that I am considered an open-minded person. I would have no problem playing with a couple that was completely bi-sexual, but I realize that some bi-sexual couples have a problem playing with straight couples (just as some bi-fems have a problem playing with couples where the woman isn't bi-at-all). Personally, I am very comfortable with the incidental MM contact that happens during a sexual pile up - the inadvertant leg brush or whatever - and this would be a little bit less of an issue to worry about with men who are either similarly secure or just bisexual.
But, do I want to cross that line into purposeful touching? No...
Our club does not allow MM contact, and honestly, I think that is kind of unfortunate. When two couples enter a room and lock the door, I would hope the only thing anyone would care about (if even this) is whether or not they are "gloving up".
I'm not bi - but not because I have a problem with "bisexuality". If it fulfills a person's sexuality - and does not force itself on me - I am a big supporter of it.
I am sorry that you guys deal with discrimination. I can't explain it, other than to agree that some folks just can't handle the thought. I wish it wasn't that way, but it is...
Spoomonkey
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