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I think some people might jump the gun a little and assume there is some type of anxiety or stigmatism against bi males in the swinging community. I am not so sure. It shouldn't be compaired with something as terrible as racism or intollerance for someone who is gay. Most men a very insecure about male play. Most likely feel if they persue someone who advertises as a couple with a bi male then they may be obligated to play with the other man at some point, and most men are just not comfertable with that. Its not that the bi male is being judged for enjoying play with other men, but more that the staight guy is afraid he may find him self in a situation he would rather not be in. When people use ad site on the internet to find folks they feel they are compatible with you use what little bit of information that is in a profile to make a quick judgement call as to whether or not you are compatable. Is this fair to bi males??? No But is it people being desciminatory???? In most cases no. Not to say there are not some homaphobic narrow minded swingers out there. But as a whole I think we are a little more open minded then that.

Jusy my oppinion maybe I am being nieve.