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Originally Posted by BloomoCoupleFun My guess -- and it is only a guess -- that the people who contacted us felt they were being 'tracked' simply via name and pic. As you say, Indiana is a big small town so methinks they are simply concerned over their names and pics. I mean something like 'Sally and Craig from Gas City" makes it kinda easy to know who they are if met in a club, you know? But that's only a wild guess. We haven't been to any clubs here yet so its not a big deal for us. But for some reason it seemed a big concern to the 2 couples that contacted us. Maybe they each have a concern over confidentiality greater than our own? I dunno.
But I guess I have to repeat back to you my own confusion over your mention of "... and those regulars do keep tabs". One the one hand it seems you're kinda agreeing/acknowledgeing the "tracking" of couples that way, but methinks maybe you just meant that any regular will track other participants. Just like being in a favorite bar or hangout, the regular folks are familiar and new one's get a curious eye, you know? |
Yes. I am saying that. I think because there are so few mainstream clubs here, I have noticed (and this is just my experience) that word travels fast. Most regulars at my club, are regular at the others too. It is not uncommon for me to overhear comments made about new members. And it is also two fold- Because it is easy to know who Craig and Sally are, it would be even easier to know what they are doing in that club environment.