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Old 02-06-2005, 09:56 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: Why the hatred of bi-males?

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Originally Posted by HotMoCpl
Let's see if I can explain a couple of things to you about "bi" males. First off a truely "bi" male is one who has not truely identified his own sexuality. Often given to wanting a typical male/female relationship; children, family etc.
The "bi" males in the swing world I believe are those just looking for sexual thrills....good?...bad? I won't/cannot judge. As a male, I believe I could relate to the real "bi" male more then the sexual thrill seeker.
I'm real sorry buddy, but I just don't get your point. Personally, we think of most swingers as sexual thrill seekers -- we sure are. We are not looking for emotional nurturing through swinging. We're into the sexual thrill of it, and feel most of the people we've met are too. If we weren't interested in the thrill of screwing for fun we'd ask the neighbors to dinner instead (smile).

FWIW, I (male half here) don't agree that bi means undecided. To me it means more decided than most... heh...
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