Well, this is one couple with a straight female and a bi male and I for one, am damn proud of it.
We don't pass judgement on others and fully accept and respect other couples wishes. We feel that being comfortable with another couple is the only way to experience the lifestyle and we make it a point in telling other prospective partners well beforehand that male/male contact is not mandatory if you join us. In short, if it bothers you, please be open enough to tell us that sort of play is off limits. We will fully honor your wishes!
We have noticed that many people will shun a couple with an openly bi male. That is why we prefer threesomes with other willing males. Again, there is nothing that says male/male contact is required, and we will not be offended in any way if one prefers only hetrosexual contact.
The way we see it is that we, as hopefully every other couple in the lifestyle, are into swinging for the pleasure and excitement! Why else would someone want to swing?
Rest assured, we are not snobs and if our paths would ever cross, we would surly consider hooking up with you, male contact or not!!
