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Originally Posted by BloomoCoupleFun Other side of the coin is the mini-flood of responses we got from "completely straight" couples who mainly wanted male-male contact! And the approaches are weirdly consistent -- these 'straight' males want to bottom for a man. And they usually do not want to just give a BJ -- they want to be mounted; yet still list themselves as straight. Our only guess is that they list themselves that way because of the anti-bi attitudes.
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Just my 2 cents... I think they do list themselves as straight, and can you blame them? With the receptions you have recieved? Bi-femme is very mainstream. It is wildly accepted, publicized and desired. True it is a double standard, but it just is. No one is going to think any differently, no matter what is said about it.
Since you are advertising your bi-maleness, and people are still contacting you with interest. Go with it. They wouldn't want to meet you if they didn't want to play, right? Who cares if they admit it or not, the play is still the same. Everyones definition of Bi- is something else. I have yet to see a norm with women, I doubt there is one that exists with men.
I have a friend who, in a playing situation, will be with women all night. She hoever, claims she is straight. I on the other hand, choose to think of myself as situationally bi. I have no issue playing with women during a playtime, but wouldn't seek it out, or play without my husband there.
As far as being blacklisted from a club? Indiana is the biggest small town around. I have found that clubs here, develop regulars and those regulars do keep tabs. But, I have yet to be in a club where they have asked for a website username? How do people know your a bi-male, and its actually you? I am very confused by your statement, can you elaborate?
