[BloomoCoupleFun]

I know its been spoken of here on the forum before but I still just "don't get it" when it comes to the sometimes agressive anti-bi-male attitudes we have encountered.

We could never fault anyone who is simply not interested in a specific play type (i.e. anal) nor wants it included in play. But why do so many couples (mainly the males) completely freak out over any mention of "bi-curious" or "bi" males??? Many bi-female seeking couples seem to have no problem with a non-bi female playmate -- why is it seen as mandatory for males?

Found the first elements in placing on-line ads and making the mistake of admitting "bi-curious" in our description. Next thing we know we get 2 warnings from Indiana couples (we live in Indiana) telling us "WATCH OUT! The bi-male police will be after you!" Both couples warned us that their own Indiana experiences were being "traced" by swinger club members who want to "prevent bi-males from coming to the clubs here". To which we said: "What the @#&*@&?" The folks we've actually talked to or established relationships with have no issue with it -- nor interest, which is 100% fine with us.

I just don't get it. I don't think its entirely an STD disease fear -- we had another couple tell us "no faggots" because I mentioned I was curious -- but had not had ANY bi-sex experience for over twenty years! And this from an "experienced" swinger couple who advertizes their own demand for bisexual females, their own open-minded attitudes, etc.; guess just forgot to mention bigotry in their descrip.

So could any of you experienced swingers help us out on this one? Is this just another wacky element of the folks in Indiana or is this universal in the swinging community? And why fer christsakes is having one bi experience 20 years ago someone pose a threat to non-bi males?????

Other side of the coin is the mini-flood of responses we got from "completely straight" couples who mainly wanted male-male contact! And the approaches are weirdly consistent -- these 'straight' males want to bottom for a man. And they usually do not want to just give a BJ -- they want to be mounted; yet still list themselves as straight. Our only guess is that they list themselves that way because of the anti-bi attitudes.

Just dazed and confused on this one... Makes no sense to see so many couples almost begging for bi-female action but who clearly have anti-male bi bigotry.

Are the other males just -that- woefully insecure with their own sexuality?