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Old 02-04-2005, 12:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Breaking Her In

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Originally Posted by VegasLee
I don't try to figure out if some people belongs in the Lifestyle or not anymore.

Many years ago when Laura and I had been together for about a year I put on my "STUPID HAT" as she calls it and broke us up because I did not think she would be able to deal with the Lifestyle that I had been in most of my life.

Boy did I get lucky! For some reason she liked me enough to beat on me until I told her why we where breaking up. I thought wrong about her and the Lifestyle. She was interested in checking it out and a couple weeks later she was like an ole timer at it.

Well, many years later we are still a couple and enjoy our Lifestyle together forever.
I think this is the exact situation our friend is in, Lee.

The guys seem to think she'll LOVE it once she tries it and lets her inhibitions go.

I am more cautious than the men.

If she hates it, I don't want to be part of the reason they break up.
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