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Old 02-04-2005, 11:54 AM   #7 (permalink)
Vespertine
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Default Re: Breaking Her In

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
Also, did this guy already tell her you are swingers? Did he ask your permission to do that? That concerns me too. If you did all swing, and then they broke up, she could be an angry woman who would want to tell the world "Have I got a story for you!" And there you are, the characters in her latest break-up story.

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She knows we're swingers, he asked Mr. Vespertine if it was alright to tell her, we're fine with her knowing. What she doesn't know is our history with her boyfriend.

I'm not too worried about her 'spilling the beans' to any mutual acquaintances. The ones she knows are well aware of our lifestyle. Plus, she lives a distance away from us, and gossip wouldn't be a concern.

I think he wants us to be their experiment couple because he knows he can trust us. We are a no pressure couple who knows how to keep sex and friendship separate. We're easy going and versatile, drug, disease and drama free.

Hell, my husband and I would be my first choice for a couple if I was an outsider too!
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