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Originally Posted by Vespertine I'm convinced she's just doing this as a last resort, to stay in a relationship with him. She's a very reserved woman, and this just doesn't seem like a lifestyle for her, IMO. I don't know her that well, but that's the feeling I get. |
If you're convinced, I'm convinced. I say trust your female instincts and
don't play with them until they have played with others and know if it's right for their relationship.
Why would you want to be her "experiment couple?" Besides, he's a good friend and if things don't go well, is he going to be put in a position of taking sides?--you guys or his new girl. Sounds risky to me.
Women can do some dumb things to try and keep a man. I'd spend more vanilla time with them, but not swing with them.
Also, did this guy already tell her you are swingers? Did he ask your permission to do that? That concerns me too. If you did all swing, and then they broke up, she could be an angry woman who would want to tell the world "Have I got a story for you!" And there you are, the characters in her latest break-up story.
LM