 Re: Is my swinging life over?
Shoreguy, you've received a lot of good advice here. I must agree.
If you cannot communicate your needs to your wife, you need to do some serious thinking about the state of your relationship, and why that is so impossible. It's my opinion that each person in a marriage has an obligation to let the other person know exactly what he or she needs out of that relationship. Respecting your own needs and desire for happiness is not just your right, it's your responsibility. Anything less than that is unfair to your spouse; they can't read minds, eh? My advice would be to do the 'impossible' and tell her what you are feeling and what you fear will happen if your needs are not being met.
*Keeping in mind of course that some level of compromise is always going to be necessary.
We wish you luck.
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