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Originally Posted by VegasLee Since I don't personally know you I am not going to sit here and say that your marriage in in trouble but "anything like that" is a real possibility when you state "there's no way I can explain to her what I'd still like to do."
Once you can not talk to your spouse, there is "something like that" going on.
If you can not talk, you don't have a total honest relationship with anyone.
And. If you feel you are "stuck" then you really have a lot to work on besides thinking about swinging. |
I have to agree with VegasLee, there is something wrong if one or both of you can't talk about your feelings, relationship, marriage. Even if she wanted to be in the lifestyle I would have to say if your communication is that bad then swinging is the wrong way to try and fix it.
Mr Spoo and I have talked about a time when maybe one of us wants to quite swinging for some reason or maybe for a health reason and we would both be okay with that. Our sex life is fantastic and exciting without swinging. So again I say if you 'need' swinging to spice up your sex life or to keep from being bored then I think you may want to consider something else to fix things with your marriage first. Most couples in the lifestyle aren't here to fix their marriage or spice up something they don't have. They are here because they do have great communication and sex and just want to add to the fun together.
Mrs Spoomonkey