 Re: Is my swinging life over?
Our advise would be to get it out in the open. People are always saying communication is the most important aspect of this lifestyle. I agree with northindycpl that she hasn't told you her feelings on the subject yet. Open discussion is the only way to go.
MrSC - I have felt in the past that previous partners have 'gone along' with my interests (sexual or otherwise) on the grounds that I will lose interest in it eventually and therefore avoid confrontation by saying "no" directly to my face.
Talk about it - a frustrating relationship is worse than no relationship in our opinion.
Oh - we forgot if you feel the need to cheat - discuss those feelings or begin to think how you can both move on. The longer you wait the worse it will get.
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