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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey Had we been published in a "guest list" to a party like that, I'm afraid people would read much more into it than they would simply stumbling across our profile. Does that make sense?Spoomonkey |
I'm with you on this one. House parties by nature are small gatherings so you can't "absorb" so to speak into the crowd like you could a club setting. We would want to know who was going to be in attendance at a house party but wouldn't want the list spammed out to half the Swing Lifestyle folks in our area.
Probably for us we'd be more into a get together of folks we already know and have met. Then by some open and honest communication between likely couples you could get permission to circulate a small discreet list of folks that might be attending.
That would probably be based completley on how well the candidate couple knew and trusted you about things like being able to judge compatibilty, (looks and otherwise) discretion etc. that are similar to their tastes.
The old proverb is true, "birds of a feather flock together." Many times we'll shy away soley based on the hosts...most I think that would attend a small house party will be with folks similar to them. So in our estimation, if you've seen the host, you've seen the crowd.
Spoo's would be a dead give away since it would be held at the zoo!
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